Friday night was the Spring Fling dance for the middle school. For the 6th graders, it's their first dance. They do their combined with the 7th graders. The 8th graders have a separate dance where they also serve dinner. The only person in our family involved with the 8th grade dance was me, since I had to do decorations for the dinner. Matt's closest pals were not going (soccer tournaments, etc.) so Matt decided he didn't want to go either. Then Bassam got tickets to the Predators game and that sealed the deal. The Preds lost, but they had a great time regardless. Plus, Matt had a brand new Pekka Rinne jersey that he was excited to wear!
Gracie, on the other hand, was not going to miss it. The 6th graders were all a twitter about the dance. Countless conversations and texts exchanged with pictures of dresses shared (it's "dressy casual"), decisions about hair, and figuring out who was going with who (no dates, just groups of friends).
Gracie asked to be dropped off at her friend Natalie's house where she met up with another friend, Hope. They appear to have spent the next 40 minutes taking pictures. I had to snag a few of them off her phone for myself.
After the dance, these three girls, along with 7 others came back to our house for dinner. When I suggested a post-dance dinner to Gracie initially, I thought it would be 3 or 4 friends. But this mama hates the idea of anyone being left out, so 10 it was. My friend Mandy helped me pick them all up (her daughter Anna was in the posse) and then hung out while the girls enjoyed a taco bar and s'mores. There was a lot of screaming, giggling, looking at pictures on phones and loud storytelling.
And 90% of it took place on my back porch. Sorry, neighbors.
Fast forward to Saturday, where after spending part of the afternoon (and a large chunk of change) buying Matt a new trumpet, we hosted Gracie's 12th birthday party. After changing her mind on what she wanted to do and who she wanted to invite a thousand times, we finally landed on going back to Schakolad, a local chocolate place, for her party. She's actually had a couple parties there in the past and it never disappoints. They have a chocolate fountain at the start (Matt & Bassam stayed for this part and then wisely escaped the craziness!). Then they dipped their own Oreos, marshmallows and other goodies (which they later decorated), they did a chocolate tasting (darkest chocolate through milk) and learned about where it comes from, and finished by building and decorating chocolate houses in teams, which they later took apart and took pieces home.
Safe to say, a delicious time was had by all.
I wrapped up hosting duties tonight by having our April Girl Scout meeting at the house. Bassam and Matt were relegated up to the bonus room with the dog (where they watched the Predators trounce the Avalanche 5-0) while the girls worked on their Science of Happiness badge. Well, at least that's what we started out doing. Sometimes the girls really want to talk about something else (although tonight it was somewhat related) and you just have to let the conversation flow. There were clearly a lot of tween friend issues on their minds, so we let them share, offer each other advice and finished with a fun project of making a happiness jar full of notes and compliments from each other to read when they need a pick-me-up.
But after three straight evenings of hosting 11 and 12 year old girls, I'm officially spent!



































